I Hate Men - Pauline Harmange , Natasha Lehrer (Translator)

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  youdontknowmeisalreadytaken
  September 24th, 2023
  

  Now imagine somebody writing a book

  I
  Hate
  Men

  I Hate Men - Pauline Harmange , Natasha Lehrer (Translator)
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  fall19
  September 24th, 2023
  

  At least you’re honest, i guess.

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  Zaynio
  September 24th, 2023
  

  

  Thanks

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  ukulele12345
  September 24th, 2023
  

  Me too. The bastards! Women are better at everything. Well, except, uh,…

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  erouting
  September 24th, 2023
  

  As the author notes, many women who have been harmed just deny their legitimate hate. Which precludes social change as no one can build a cohesive social response around not blaming anyone.

  Whatever your political stance is, who would have helped the Ukraine if they had said “Some buildings randomly exploded. People died. We think that’s wrong, but we don’t blame anyone in particular.”

  Hate is the normal initial human reaction to being hurt. If men hurt you or your group, it’s okay to hate men. In fact, given the relatively abysmal progress of women on metrics like safety and sexual assault conviction rates, some hate might do a lot of good.

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  nsjordan
  September 24th, 2023
  

  Come now, erouting, I’m pretty sure this comment thread is supposed to be a safe space for dudes who don’t bother to read the adioook descriptions, let alone listen to the actual thing. This is a zone for the reactions of guys who don’t understand the concept of a provocative title. Don’t sully it with the author’s actual ideas.

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  entonbray
  September 24th, 2023
  

  Odd sentiment for someone who looks like a man.

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  apollo60
  September 24th, 2023
  

  Is this a Fema-Nazi whine fest by a self-hating misandrist? She could have written Hitler’s speeches.
  A 50 page hate scree for $12?
  Well, there goes 20 years of her therapy into the toilet. Up the meds Honey!

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  erouting
  September 24th, 2023
  

  @nsjordan - That’s an accurate summary. But I only look like a liberal that might respect safe spaces. Liberals hate my sort. We get in the way of feeling good about empty platitudes.

  I’m glad this book exists. No one else can fight this battle for women. I can break systems that harm people, including women, but the chronic issue is a lack of power. No one can give women power. They have to take it. Hate is where that starts. It doesn’t end there, but it can’t start in a meaningful way until women are willing to die for what they believe to be right. Until they grin at a jail sentence because they expected a bullet. That’s one of the hardest mindsets to live in. Hate makes it bearable until habit takes over. *

  I wish it were otherwise. Anyone who wants to change society, no matter how just their cause, is a revolutionary. Society has been getting worse for everyone. We desperately need more revolutionaries. Next to that, weak egos in a comment forum mean nothing. I’ll say whatever I can to get more people to fight.

  *Caesar may point out that love works too. And it does, but that takes a saint, and there just aren’t enough of them. And with the popular press being what it is their sacrifices are ignored rather than celebrated. But 1,000 angry women willing to take risks? Done right that’ll be on the front page long enough to inspire at least 1,000 more.

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  erouting
  September 24th, 2023
  

  @apollo60 - She hates men, not herself. That’s part of the point of the book. Most women do actually hate themselves when men harm them, which is not very reasonable. So she wrote this book. In part to suggest that they not do that anymore.

  There’s hate as an expression of anger and as motivation, which is how I read this book, and then there’s that all consuming, self-destructive disgust for other people. I had the later. I think you might too.

  Most of the people I felt that way about never knew. But it did wreck my own health. Which means, overall, they won. I was worse off and they were unchanged. Now I fight, I hate productively, but I don’t hate in that way anymore. I waste less energy and make more progress. But to do that I had to stop being controlled by hate and use it as a tool instead.

  For me it took mushrooms and close calls with death to stop thinking that way. Maybe you’re more mature than I am and can find a different method. But, even if we categorically disagree, it’s not a fun mindset to live in. Sure, fight against ideas you disagree with, oppose what I say to the fullest if that’s your view point, but please don’t destroy yourself in the process unless it’s on purpose. You’re worth more than that.

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  jimmybob25
  September 24th, 2023
  

  Imagine me writing a book titled “i hate women.”

  And then using the same login that @erouting is spouting around here.

  This is misandry, and it should not be posted and allowed here.

  A friend of mine was killed by his girlfriend. Can is say “I hate women?” I guess I will be called a misogynist if I do that. Should I hate all women because one of them did something heinous?

  Well, according to @erouting - yes, yes i should. That’s the twisted logic they are using and trying to normalize.

  Disgusting!

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  illusional
  September 24th, 2023
  

  Good luck reproducing without them.

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  Thamus
  September 24th, 2023
  

  I’m guessing the author just needs to get laid :P

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  Bardknits
  September 25th, 2023
  

  Unfortunately women take pause when they raise sons or daughters who fall in love. They haven’t changed our minds. Part of healthy motherhood is respecting the clean slate but children learn in many ways.
  @jimmybob25 women who hate men seldom have one reason to do so. Feel free to write a book and tell the story of your buddy. Sorry for your loss.
  @nsjordan, @erouting as usual lots to think about and you are correct in my view.

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  apnea
  September 25th, 2023
  

  

  Let em have it. Next big war = all female draft.

  We’ll write letters to our girls in action at the front.

  Dear Jane, I got lonely, so I’m now boning your sister. Sorry.

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  isoldamondragon
  September 25th, 2023
  

  I’ve met women who hold this attitude. (I’m a woman.) I’ve also met men who hold this attitude toward women. They have generally been wounded in some way, by physical or emotional abuse, by divorce, by a horrible childhood, or by some mental or emotional problem that they find convenient to blame the opposite sex for.

  I do not understand why it seems to be all the rage for feminists to promote this sort of hate. What does concern for women and equal rights have to do with hate? Why does the media fawn all over this sort of disordered thinking?

  I find it terribly sad when people like this create some hateful ideology, rather than trying to heal their wounds.

  I will say that I find the men who hold this hate in their hearts to be scarier than the women. They tend to get violent more often.

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  privateero
  September 25th, 2023
  

  @erouting and yet billions of women just recently chose to their biology and DNA integrity raped with a Ted Bundy fast-tracked medical experiment, and feel great about it, so that hate is severely misplaced. It’s not the thing that happens to you, but how you define it. And what has this increased power done for women and society as a whole? Making marriage in the western world untenable based on the high rate of divorce and family breakup, deletion of countless millions of babies, and the destruction of western society with far-left subversion. The better question is how can women support a world where sexual assaults dont happen? Maybe homeschooling and nurture feminine, not feminist traits. The current state of affairs shows a general flaw in the female brain that requires masculine leadership, the lack of logical thinking ability unswayed by societal pressures.

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  Hogweed
  September 25th, 2023
  

  

  Probably written by a 40 year old ugly fat rainbow haired screaming lunatic. She can spend the rest of her meaningless life being alone and childless. Would want someone like her having a child and destroying the poor things mind with all this angry feminist’s rhetoric and propaganda.

  I Hate Men - Pauline Harmange , Natasha Lehrer (Translator)
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  pbcaddy
  September 25th, 2023
  

  More and more I do too.

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  plenihimun
  September 25th, 2023
  

  It’s insane how narrow-minded and reactionary people who use the website are. Try engaging with people who gave different viewpoints instead of trying to belittle them, Trump-style. You’ll genuinely improve as a person. This goes for anyone with any view.

  I Hate Men - Pauline Harmange , Natasha Lehrer (Translator)
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  haffner
  September 25th, 2023
  

  

  And this is not hate speech?

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  tinderviddles
  September 25th, 2023
  

  You know what really drives all these feminazis crazy??

  The fact that they owe their very existence to a man.

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  tenbenson
  September 27th, 2023
  

  So much projection here from men who literally hate women - they’re called incels.

  As mentioned above, the idea of a provocative title like that would lead the curious to investigate what was behind it. No chance of that happening with all the entirely incurious whining manbabies that hang out on this site.

  Don’t worry men, you’ll never get near enough to a real woman to find out what she thinks of you

  I Hate Men - Pauline Harmange , Natasha Lehrer (Translator)

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